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Bennet “Ben” Kopecki
June 3, 2024
KOPECKI, Bennet “Ben” - A loving father and husband, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Monday, June 3, 2024, after a courageous six-year battle with cancer. His unwavering strength and love for life touched everyone who knew him. Ben’s strong faith sustained him throughout his illness. He found solace in prayer and believed in the power of divine grace.
Ben was a devoted husband to his wife, Betty, and a proud father of five children, Krystyna (James), Joanne (Carlos), Andrew (Samm), Cecilia and Ella (Chris). His eight grandchildren adored their “Papa,” and his influence will continue to shape their lives. He greatly appreciated the support and love of his extended family and friends, and the companionship of his many granddogs over the years. His love knew no bounds, and he cherished every moment spent with the people around him.
Ben’s heart also belonged to the sprawling beauty of the West Coast. He loved to share stories of his time in the Rocky Mountains and on the Pacific Ocean.
He taught his children that life was richer when set to music. From classic rock to modern hits, we all have a song that reminds us of Dad.
Ben was also the go-to person for advice on the latest gadgets and technologies. He could diagnose any problem and fix it. His workbench was always a treasure trove of tools and spare parts.
Ben’s memory will last forever in the laughter of family gatherings, the hum of his favourite songs, and the glow of screens he tinkered with. As we mourn his loss, we celebrate the remarkable man he was—a beacon of faith, strength, wisdom, and unwavering love.
The Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Mary of the Purification Catholic Church, 310 Parkside Drive, Mount Forest, on Saturday, June 8th at 11:00 a.m. Interment will take place at Sacred Heart Cemetery, Kenilworth. Following, all are invited for refreshments and fellowship at Sacred Heart Church, Kenilworth.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Sacred Heart Church, Kenilworth, or a charity of your choice. Arrangements entrusted to the England Funeral Home, Mount Forest.
Rest in peace, dear Ben. Your spirit lives on in our hearts.
Condolences
Betty and family,
We are so very sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. He was a lovely man, a loving husband and such a proud father and grandfather. His children and grandchildren are a reflection of Ben and of you, Betty. Quite a legacy.
He is at peace in the arms of our loving God until we meet again.
Thinking and praying for all of you.
Mary-Ellen, Jerod and Meaghan Hannah
Praying for Betty and family,
while you listen to the emptiness,
between the notes of those songs.
God bless,
Helen Brown
Sending our deepest sympathies to Betty and family. You are in our thoughts and prayers
John and Laurie
BEN , I WILL ALWAYS TREASURE KNOWING YOU & YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY ! BEN, BEING A ONLY CHILD MUST HAVE BEEN LONELY AT TIMES, AND ...... ALONG CAME BETTY WITH THE EXTENDED LEHMAN TROOP ! OH HAPPY DAYS [LIFE] ! YOU BOTH BIRTHED FIVE GORGIOUS , & GIFTED CHILDREN ! I WAS SO PLEASED TO KNOW THAT ALL THE KIDS AND GRANDKIDS WERE WITH YOU TO SAY THIER LOVING AND GRATEFUL GOOD BYES TO A SWELL FATHER ! HEY BEN , NOW WHILE BEING IN THE ARMS OF OUR BELOVED LORD , YOU GET TO KNOW THE SECRETS OF HEAVEN ! I WANT YOU TO KNOW, THERE IS A SONG REPEATING OVER N OVER IN MY MEMORIES OF YOU "THANK YOU FOR THE MUSIC" HAPPY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS FOR YOU ALL !
LOVE... PENNY O'DONOHUE MURPHY
We are so sorry for your loss and send our condolences to the Kopecki family. I had the pleasure of meeting Ben a couple of times and thought how lucky the family was to have such a joyful, positive and loving father and grandfather. He will be sadly missed. We aren't able to attend the service but know we will be thinking of you all and send our love.
Carol, Jay and Chris
From myself and Olivia, our sincerest condolences go out to the entire Kopecki family! They say children reflect their parents, and knowing Andrew well, Ben was definitely a great man!
Thoughts and prayers to all of you!
My deepest sympathies to you Betty and your family
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
Kathy
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Kopecki family.
GP and family.
Betty I am sorry to hear of Bens passing,
my thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire Kopecki family.
I was a stray university student from the US who had nowhere to go for Canadian Thanksgiving when Krystyna brought me home with her way back in 1998, and Ben and Betty welcomed me and made me feel like family. It became a bit of a tradition, one that I sorely missed after moving to the Maritimes, as those visits with my "adopted Canadian family" were always filled with joy and laughter. Ben was so full of kindness, humour, joy, and love for his family. He was an example of everything a loving father should be, and it was obvious how important his family was to him and how important he was to them.
To the Kopecki family, who have always been so kind, supportive, and generous to me, I send you all my love as you mourn the loss of a wonderful man. Thinking of you all and sending you love.
Jen, Rakesh, Kellan, and Miles
Sorry for your loss Betty. Thinking of you & your family during this difficult time.
— Donna Langdon, June 6, 2024Betty and family
We want to extend our very deepest sympathies and let you know we’re thinking of you.
My deepest condolences to the Kopecki family ❤️
— Shelly Hack-Scholes, June 5, 2024My deepest condolences to the Kopecki family.
— Dirk Wieczorek, June 5, 2024Thinking of you, Betty, and your family, at this sad time.
— Steve & Mary Frances Heffernan, June 5, 2024Condolences to the Kopecki family.
— Bob Pelino, June 5, 2024Betty and family, sending along out sympathy to all.
Leonard and Lois Schmidt
My deepest condolences to the Kopecki family. I was blessed to work with Krystyna a few years ago and we often found ourselves speaking about our parents. Krystyna spoke about her father often. She spoke about his deep love of the West Coast and his inspirational commitment to his faith. It was evident in the ways she spoke about him, that he was an incredible man. A man that Krystyna, and her family, loved & adored in abundance. In knowing Krystyna, I am confident that he will continue to live on in her and all others that knew and loved in. May you rest in Eternal peace, Ben. 🦋
— Jennifer Mendes, June 4, 2024Our hearts and Prayers go out to you Betty and to your wonderful Family at this Sad time. Ben was a wonderful person and we feel Blessed to have gotten to know him.
— Ernest & Marguerite, June 4, 2024