Deborah McLuhan
November 13, 2010
Condolences
My sincere sympathy to the entire family. and especially to Joan her mom that I knew as a teenager. I dont often hear news from Mt Forest as I have lived in Sarnia for 44 years.
— Marjorie Peters nee McIntosh, May 6, 2013Deborah will be missed by many. My Sympathy to your family
— Kevin Thedorf, November 24, 2010Joan & Jim ; I am so saddened to hear of Deb's passing. Living in Collingwood ,I had crossed paths with Deb at the hospital. In the short time we chatted, what good (Ol' Mount Forest) memories came back. It was so nice seeing someone of our "old guard" and having a laugh at our own expense. My Deepest Sympathy extends to you and your family. God speed Deb
— John Robertson, November 23, 2010Dear Joan and Jim, We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Debbie's passing. Our family has such fond memories of good times spent with all of you. Memories like those you never forget, nor do you forget those persons who welcome you into their home so warmly. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
— Bonnie MacEachern and Bruce Leung, November 22, 2010My condolences to all family and close friends to Deb, as a peer in college, Deb was always smiling and full of energy, and was always friendly and was always a friend,,,this makes me so sad as she was taken to early,,a great women,,,,until we meet again,,,god bless,,,Karen Shipp
— karen shipp, November 20, 2010Dear Jim and Joan; I was so sorry to hear of your tragic loss of a dear daughter. Please accept my heartfelt condolenses. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Janice Kirk
— Janice Kirk, November 19, 2010Dear Aunt Joan@Uncle Jim Iam deeply sorry to hear of the passing of beb i use to go into co- op in dundalk and visit her alot but i have not seen her in years she was always so nice to me and my family she will be really missed Love Mary Rolston and family
— Mary Rolston, November 17, 2010Dear Jim and Joan, When Dad told me the news of Debbie's passing, it took a while to sink in. I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. It has been so long since I moved out west, but I still remember Debbie from the days when we were little, and I would spend time at Grandma's house in the summers. We saw much less of each other when I went to high school and then lost touch after my move out west. I remember how musical she was, and a little bit shy, though I gather from the comments I have read from others that she lost all traces of that shyness as she grew older. I am glad to know how loved Debbie was, by so many people. She was lucky to have her family so close by and to have stayed so connected with all of them. I know she is with them now, surrounded by the love of those who went before her. And if her reunion with them is anything like the McLuhan parties I remember from my younger days, there is laughter, music, a drink or two, and lots of love. I sure miss those times. My heart goes out to you. Much love, Brenda
— Brenda McLuhan, November 17, 2010Dear McLuhan Family....I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I just heard the news. Please know that I am thinking of you at this time. Debbie and I were close friends in elementary school and I remember spending many times at your lovely home close to the school. Please accept my thoughts and prayers. Sincerest Sympathies, Lorrie (Adams) Hopf
— Lorrie (Adams) Hopf, November 17, 2010My thoughts go out to all of Deb's family and friends during this difficult time. I worked with Deb in the ER in Collingwood I will miss her incredible personality and smiling face, she was always a breath of fresh air! Please except my sincere condolences. Deb will be truly missed.
— Joanne Dempster, November 16, 2010I WORKED WITH DEB IN ER FOR THE PAST 3 YEARS. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER 3 YRS AGO WHILE HAVING A SMOKE AT THE BUS STOP THAT DEB SAID " I WISH SOMEONE WOULD BUY MY F####NG HOUSE" SO MY HUSBAND AND I DID. I GOT TO KNOW DEB WELL, LOVED HER AND PROMISED HER TO GUARD OVER THE GRAVE SITE OF HER LOVED DOG AT THE BACK OF THE PROPERTY. I HAVE BEEN BLESSED TO KNOW DEB. I WILL CHERISH THE 25 PAGES OF DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS SHE LEFT FOR MAINTAINING THE HOUSE THAT SHE AND BLONDIE BUILT. AGAIN MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES ON DEBS PASSING. SINCERLY DEB FOUBERT
— DEB FOUBERT, November 16, 2010Dear Jim and Joan, We were so sorry to hear of Deb's passing. Word can not express how sorry we are. She was truly a lovely lady who always looked to the bright side of things, even as far back as our high school days. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda and Lorne
— Linda and Lorne Treleaven, November 16, 2010I am sorry for your loss. I had worked with Deb and she was always a bright spot in my day. She will be sadly missed. Anne Upton
— Anne Upton, November 16, 2010My deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Debbie. I have had the privilege of working with Debbie for the past 3 years. Her decision to become a nurse as a second career was certainly her calling. She was a shining example of professionalism, compassion all with a great sense of humor. She was loved by all who met her. She never spoke badly of anyone no matter what. She was dedicated to her work and her family. God chooses only the best for his angels! May we all aspire to be the half the person Deb was.
— Lisa Nicol, November 15, 2010My deepest sympathy to you,Deb's treasured family on her loss.I too will miss her greatly.Deb welcomed and helped me with the transition of working in Collingwood from the city ER with lots of teasing and jokes. Those laughs continued every day we worked together.She had a rare ability to be compassionate,fun,and yet always professional.Deb spoke lovingly of her family and good buddy "Karma" Somewhere there is a huge bright star shining down on all that loved her. Randi Payne RN
— Randi Payne, November 15, 2010Dear Aunt Joan and Uncle Jim; It has taken a few days to decide what to say. I would like to start be saying how special your daughter was to me. My Aunt Debbie was always a favourite! She was always the life of the party and could light up any room. Her musical talent always astounded me from a young age, she could hear a song and sit down at the piano and play us a tune. She always treated us kids as her own and made us feel loved. Going through my ADSBOG (Aunt Debbie's Special Box of Goodies) today brought back lots of memories. Every Christmas she gave us something new for our special silver box that she thought was special, and they were. She and Blondie always threw the best summer parties at her house when the whole family could get together and enjoy one another and catch up! Oh the memories that were made. I can't begin to express just how much she meant to each and every one of us and how much she will be missed. She will still be around however inside our hearts. I find comfort in knowning that she will be having the best time in heaven- joining those that passed before her and having a drink for all of us! Here's to you Aunt Debbie, thanks for being a special part of our lives and remember we will never forget you! Love Always, Stephanie
— Stephanie Weaver (Stack), November 15, 2010Sheila and i are sitting here tonight thinking of all the good times we had with Debbie, and we will miss her so much she was a wonderful person. Our thoughts are with you Jim and Joan
— Bev Quartel/ Sheila Brown, November 15, 2010Dear McLuhan Family. Words cannot begin to describe the shock and profound sadness I felt with Deb's passing. As a Paramedic out of Wasaga Beach Base for the last 23 years, I have seen alot of Nurses come and go through the doors of Collingwood General and Marine Hospital. Deb was an outgoing and loving person, which was exemplified in her performance throughout the Emergency Department. Deb's quick wit and awsome sense of humour often made not only my day or night, but many other Paramedics as well. Deb's compassion towards the young and old, the sick and injured was forthright and truly genuine. Debs outgoing personality and especially her ability not to judge others, has made an impact on my own Professional Career. I hope that in this time of sorrow, that you can take comfort that Deb will always be remembered by her extended Paramedic Family. Sincerely, Daniel Madill Simcoe County Paramedic Service Badge#26772
— Daniel Madill, November 15, 2010I had the pleasure of working with Deb for a number of years. I am an ER Registration/Admitting clerk and Deb worked with our clerical group many times throughout the years as a Triage nurse and Emergency nurse. We will miss her so much, she had an amazing personality and we enjoyed working with her. She was a ray of sunshine and I always felt that she cared very much for the patients that she took care of and for the coworkers she worked with at the hospital. I will always treasure my memories of her. Please accept my deepest condolences to her family and close friends. Caroline Parker
— Caroline Parker, November 15, 2010I met Deb years before she became a nurse through a mutual friend but then I had the privilege of working with Deb at the Meaford Hospital. She was a great girl and a terrific nurse. She will be dearly missed by her coworkers and everyone who knew her.
— Cathy Shaw, November 15, 2010We are grieving here along side you for the loss of your beautiful daughter and our friend Deb. The staff at the Collingwood Hospital are still in shock as you must be. Deb was a wonderful nurse, kind, respectful and professional. She was the kind of nurse who you wanted looking after you. She had wonderful abilities as a charge nurse in our ER department. We are praying for you.......
— Judy Garbutt, RN, Hospital Coordinator, November 15, 2010Please accept my heartfelt condolences with the great loss of DEB. I had the privlege of working along side her as a ER Clerk. She was an excellent Charge Nurse & always made you feel like you were an important part of the Team. I will always remember her as a kind,gentle, caring person with a heart of gold. I hope you can find a comfort in your memories & knowing that she will be greatly missed. God Speed Deb!
— Colleen Auckland, November 15, 2010Words cannot express the great loss I am feeling for Deb. My deepest sympathies to all of Deb's family and friends who were touched by her life and the many talents she possessed. She was my study partner, sidekick, and wonderful friend throughout our years together at Georgian College. We spent many of the following years after graduation keeping in touch with several shopping trips and lunches that we enjoyed together. But our careers began, and time did not allow us to enjoy one another's company as often. And now she is gone. Taken too soon. May we all take comfort in knowing what a beautiful, caring individual she truly was. In spirit, heart and memory Deb will live forever amongst us. Sincerely, Deb Morrow
— Deborah Morrow, November 15, 2010To my Aunt and Uncle who have lost the love of their life. Deb was "our" one of kind girl!! So full of fun and good times. Always striving to be the best that she could be. Her life is one that was definitely not by the book. I can't imagine her doing it any other way. For that alone, I admire and love her being able to grab life by the %$#^s and make it work. Deb made it happen!! Her hard work and never giving up, made her the strong and independent woman she was. I was so proud of her accomplishments.We shared some long and crazy phone conversations and thought that we had solved all politics happening in the world at that time. Yes, we had everything figured out, I will surely miss those talks and "crazy" family gatherings. I know that she is not alone, all of our loved one's that went before her were waiting with open arms, welcoming her back. Deb, we will all be together one day so I will not say good-bye" , but I will say "see ya later." I love and miss you.
— kim, November 14, 2010We are writing to extend our deepest sympathies to your family. We were so very sad to hear about Debbie she was such a wonderful woman. We had the honour and the pleasure to attend the Nursing program at Georgian College with Debbie and were very sorry to hear about her tragic death. We had the greatest respect for Debbie and will miss her generous nature and sense of humour. She was a very supportive woman. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you peace and healing during this sad and difficult time. Reece & Renee Wilkinson
— Reece Wilkinson, November 14, 2010I would like to say first I am so sorry for your loss. I had the opportunity to go to Nursing school with Deb at Georgain College. She was a wonderful person and she brought sunshine on the most cloudy days always looking at the positive. Her laugh and humour that she would bring to the class was needed, she was very caring and would always lend a shoulder. She is going to be missed greatly!! I again am sorry for your loss! Miss you Deb! AprilDawn
— Aprildawn Topham, November 14, 2010Joan and Jim, We are so sad to hear of Deb's passing. She was a great friend and a wonderful woman. She was fun loving and always had a smile and loved to have a good chat when ever we got together. She will be missed by many. You are in our thoughts.
— Ruth Truax and Rick Young, November 14, 2010Dear family of Debbie, I wish to express my sympathy for your loss . I had the great privilege of working with Debbie in the emergency room..She truly was an inspiring person. I never worked a shift with her where I did not see her caring nature show through..She was a beautiful person inside and out. She made such a difference in all the lives she touched. Your great loss is shared by many..With deep respect my thoughts are with you all. Marjorie Wilson
— Marjorie Wilson, November 14, 2010I went to nursing school with Deb at Georgian College. I am truly sorry to hear about the passing of such a wonderful person. What a tragic loss. She will be missed very very much. We had many many laughs and shared lots of tears too.
— Helen Jones, November 14, 2010I had the pleasure of working with Deb in the ER at the Collingwood Hospital. She made us laugh, always had a great perspective on every situation. A highly skilled intelligent nurse. So sorry for your sudden loss.
— Kelly Tonks, November 14, 2010I am so sorry for your loss. Seeing Deb as a nurse on this page tells such a story. Deb wasn't just any nurse, she was what we want nurses to be - knowledgeable, caring, capable and willing to share their expertise. She brought her many talents every shift and we are blessed to be able to follow her example. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Heather
— Heather McLeod Soward, November 14, 2010I worked at the Collingwood Hospital with Deb. She was a lovely person and an excellent nurse. She will be greatly missed by all that knew her. Please accept my condolences.
— Carrie Grainger, November 14, 2010Jim and Joan..........You have my condolences on the passing of Debbie.She was the life of any party with her musical talent. We all will miss her greatly. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sheila
— Sheila Hamilton, November 14, 2010Brian and I would like to express our deepest condolences. We know that this message will not change anything or bring Debbie back. We will sure miss her smile at the Fireworks Festival and Hootenanny this year and years to follow. Debbie and your family will be our thoughts. Brian & Laura
— Brian and Laura Kennedy, November 14, 2010Dear Jim and Joan,,,,,,So sorry to hear of your loss of Debbie. My sincere condolences,,,,,,Glenn
— Glenn O'Rourke, November 14, 2010Mr & Mrs McLuhan and family My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I was honoured to have know Deb as both a nurse and a good friend. I have MANY memories of her. I was always so happy to come into work and see that I was going to have her as my Triage nurse. She had such a talent, and you could see that she loved being a nurse. I watched her one day calculate the amount of medication that she needed for a young child. I was amazed because everyone else I know uses a calculator, and there's Deb doing it all with just her pen and paper. I had NO idea just how much work was involved. I told her that I was surprised by her intelligence and Deb, true to form replied "Oh, so you're just realizing NOW how smart I am !!" We laughed about that constantly. A couple of weeks ago, I came into work feeling sick. Deb would NOT let up until I gave in and saw the doctor. Thanks to her insistence and intuition, I ended up finding out about a serious health problem that probably would have gone unnoticed until I was seriously ill. She even stayed late that night after her shift was over, just to make sure I was okay. I thanked her over and over and gave her a hug next time I saw her, and told her how thankful I was to her. She just replied "Hey, that's what friends are for, kiddo" I can still hear her voice saying that as if she's standing right beside me now. I've shed so many tears since hearing about Deb, but I'm using all my positive memories to help me through this time. I'm sure you'll be doing the same. I can't even imagine what you're going through right now, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'll really miss her dry sense of humour and friendship. Our hospital has lost one of it's dearest friends and an extremely talented nurse. We're all grieving and thinking of you. Thank you for sharing your loving daughter with us. For that, I'm extremely thankful. Nancy Bellamy
— Nancy Bellamy, November 14, 2010To all of Deb's family and friends: Deb was a wonderful Emergency nurse. She worked by all our sides for several years. She never spoke badly of anyone. She was classy and a beautiful person. She will be sadly missed by us at work. My thoughts and prayers go out to you especially loosing a daughter so young. Sincerely, Jennifer
— Jennifer DeAmicis. Co-worker in Emergency, November 13, 2010Well, what can I say to make all of this go away and never had happened. Jim & Joan, I love you both. I have been so blessed to have been able to share life with you and Deb and your family for many, many years. Deb was and is and will always be my "Best Friend." I Loved her so much. My life and yours will never be the same again. I have just lost my best friend of 37 years and you your only daughter. There is an empty spot in my soul now that no-one can ever fill. It's hard when I think of moving forward with life and knowing now that I can't just pick up the phone or email Deb as she isn't there anymore. I miss the times we were going to have and the things we were going to do. I have such wonderful memories of Deb. She was such a beautiful, talented, smart, witty young woman. She had the greatest sense of humour. Many times we would laugh so hard over something to trivial until we couldn't breath and our sides hurt. We laughed as they say until we cried. She cared so much and loved people and her family and friends so much. She truly had a golden heart. She was also the most courageous woman I knew. She believed in truth and honesty and standing up for what is right and doing the right thing. She had integrity and self-respect and respect for others. She never judged others and had a keen sense of "putting herself in another person's shoes" before you do judge them. Your daughter was a beautiful person inside and out. It will take alot of time for it to sink in that she is not here now and how she will be so greatly missed by so many. I Loved my friend Deb so dearly and I miss her so much. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow you both feel. Just know that you raised a beautiful daughter and now she is in a peaceful, beautiful place where there is no pain or sorrow, just peace and joy. God Bless you. Deb told me once that if she ever dies, the song she wished to be played at her funeral was "We'll Meet Again." And, we will meet Deb again. God Bless. Love Always, Linda ox
— Linda Ross(Watson), November 13, 2010Jim and Joan: Our sincere sympathy in the tragic loss of Debbie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Sincerely Ed and Sue Kelly
— Ed and Sue Kelly, November 13, 2010I worked with Debbie for the past few years at the Collingwood Hospital. She was a friend, excellent nurse and a hard worker. I will always remember her warm smile and kind way with patients. She also had a great sense of humour and we shared many laughs! To the family, please except my condolences. A friend of Debbie's from work. Tim
— Tim Hergott, November 13, 2010Dear family of Deb,as she was known to us that worked with her.What a tragic loss of such a beautiful person.Deb inspired me to improve myself at work,she was very caring to patients and thier families and encouraged her co-workers to make the best of any situation that we may have delt with.I'm glad to say that my last working shift with Deb on Tuesday Nov.9th was fun and memorable,as Deb had us laughing so hard that we where crying.She was very sociable/funny/supportive/caring and compassionate about life.She will be missed greatly. Sincere Thoughts and support to her family Vanessa Bowers RN (Collingwood Hospital - Emerg Department)
— Vanessa Bowers, November 13, 2010